Transitioning from Camper to Counselor

Transitioning from Camper to Counselor

Hi, I’m Goodwin Burgess, Tent Row 2007 (yeaahh ‘07!!), and I was a counselor in the two-week session during my TR summer and during both sessions last summer. (That’s me on the right, with Rebecca Darling.)

I had dreamed of being a counselor ever since my early years at camp. In 5th grade, Elise Landau and I actually made plans to teach arts and crafts together someday. That didn’t work out.  Having been a camper, I thought it was a little weird to be a counselor. It’s an odd transition, especially from your TR summer. It’s also very different depending on what camp you’re in; I have been a counselor in both Junior and Senior, so I’ll talk about both.

If Camp Nakanawa were an ice cream cone (just go with it), Junior would be the ice cream, and Senior would be the cone. Junior Camp is just this amazing, messy whirlwind of laughing and screaming and silliness and juicy cups while Senior has a more serious side but with plenty of giggles thrown in. I, personally, found it easier to know my place as a counselor in Junior than in Senior. You are almost like a surrogate mother in Junior while you’re this combination of friend and authority in Senior. Also, you already have relationships with the campers in Senior. I’m not going to lie, it took me a while to feel normal again. How do you act around the girls you willed stuff to, as a counselor? From watching older camper-counselors and just over the four weeks, I realized that it’s okay to still have those special friendships and “I Spy My Tie” is a game that’s just going to happen. But, you have to remember why you’re there. You are a counselor, and camp is now your job. You have responsibilities to your own bunkies, to the other counselors, to Karen and to Ann and Pepe. It’s a lot of work.Imagine you’re working on AWR, VSP and Banquet all at once for two, four or six weeks…it’s kind of like that.

But what I particularly enjoyed about being a counselor (other than the hot tub and bowling alley in the CB) was that I formed this whole new type of relationship to camp. Yeah, it takes a little adjusting, but being a counselor is amazing. You feel like you’ve really contributed to camp and like you’ve bonded with the other counselors and with your fellow ex-campers in this whole new awesome way. And I would not trade reading The Princess Bride aloud with my bunkies, bailing canoes or late night CB dance parties for anything (well, maybe the bailing canoes one). Anyway, moral of the story, camp remains paradise on earth even when you’re done being a camper. The only difference is your role in that paradise.

I hope this has been helpful. Returning TR girls, you will also be asked to watch this 20 minute video.  It will address some of the issues you might confront.  Please plan the time to watch it before you come to camp.

Smiles and Pep,

Goodwin

Val is Ever Returning

Val is Ever Returning

Hey Everyone…… My name is Val Lambert, and I am an Ever Returning Four Week Junior Nakanawa Counselor.

My first experience with Camp Nakanawa was the summer of 1971. I had just graduated from Southeastern LA. University, had a teaching job lined up for the fall but had nothing to do for the summer. A graduate-assistant, who had been to camp, told me about Camp and got me the information.

Needless to say, I was a little on the scared side since it would be the first time for me to drive over 700 miles by myself, I wasn’t sure the best route to take, I had never driven in the mountains either, and I knew no one that was going.

After arriving at the Senior Office, I could tell that this would be right up my alley. I’m an outdoorsy type person and after seeing the cabins and lake, I was on my way to being hooked. Of course, another thing that really won me over was that there were NO Mosquitoes even when you are out on the lake at night. (For a Louisiana gal, that is a BIG PLUS!!)

The friendships, the teaching, the pranks, being a Koochie, the atmosphere and the Grace of God have all been a part of the reason that I keep returning. Nakanawa has been a fabulous experience for this small town girl.

Being a teacher, made returning to camp easy because it fit in my schedule perfectly. I loved being with children, helping them with the sharing of a cabin, learning to work together to make it livable, modeling responsibility, helping them to learn to be the best that they can be, to help one another and to be happy.

I spent 4 wonderful summers at Nakanawa. Then I got married. I continued to keep in touch with my camp friends. Twenty years down the road, I had the itching to go back. I wanted my daughter to see and love camp like I had, so with my husband’s blessing in 1994 I returned with daughter at my side. She was too old to be a camper so she came to help with Jr. campers. I’ll never forget our first phone call home to her Dad. “Dad why did you let me do this!” She was miserable. She didn’t like the food, felt out of place, didn’t like the lake, or Egypt! Three weeks later, “The Spirit of Nakanawa” got her too and I was so happy for her.

I am approaching my 30th summer as a Nakanawa Counselor. I continue to come back because Ann & Pepe let me and because I feel like a special person when I’m here.
 
Looking forward to seeing everyone soon!
 
Val Lambert
 
 
Note from Shelly:  Val does so many behind the scenes jobs at camp.  It looks like (from this recent picture) that she is the Evening Entertainment photographer, and part of the EE skit.
 
And she can teach just about any activity at camp from tennis, to games, to archery.  Thanks, Val, for giving your summer to Nakanawa.

Margaret Connects Children with Nature

Margaret Connects Children with Nature

I came to camp as a counselor at age 18 (for eight weeks!), and did not know one soul at Nakanawa. I am proof that you don’t have to be a former camper to decide that spending summers at Nakanawa is not just a summer job, it is a lifestyle. Now in my 60s, I look forward all year to my time at camp. It is a Neverland where your age doesn’t matter. Everyone is young at heart.

After teaching horseback riding and Arts and Crafts in Senior Camp, I had two daughters of my own and started a whole new chapter in Junior Camp. My special passion is teaching Nature, and I am sure I have more fun than the girls do at the Nature Hut. It is my goal to have each girl become more attuned to the world of nature, more appreciative of the creatures and the beauty of the lake, more excited about hiking and adventuring, less worried about getting muddy or getting a tick; more excited about holding a snake for the first time or feeding baby ducks, less worried about germs and spiders.

I can’t wait to meet all of you!
Margaret

Tiny tells of Nakanawa Legacies

Tiny tells of Nakanawa Legacies

Hello everyone….

My mother, Sarah Hunter from Mobile boarded a train full of New Orleans girls back in the 1920’s for Nakanawa. She always talked about her love for Colonel Rice-the discipline he gave the girls and the expectations he had of them. She loved the dance program the most along with the pageants and her Valkyrie team. She began a legacy that is unbroken to this day…

4 Generations:  Lots of Lotts

My oldest sister, Sally arrived at Nakanawa in the early 1950’s, followed by my sister, Annette. They spent many happy summers at Nakanawa. They were both in Tent Row and Annette was Valkyrie Captain. Following in their footsteps, my sister, Lillis began her summers at the age of 9 in 1961, and finally I came in 1965 as the youngest (and smallest….thus the name “Tiny”). Lillis was Valkyrie Captain in Junior camp and went on to cross the lake for a few years. I spent 10 summers at Nakanawa through the late 60’s and early 70’s when camp attendance was slim. We went through the changes of 8 weeks to 7 weeks, then 6 weeks. I was in Tent Row two times-1974 and 1975. Meanwhile four of my nieces (Sally’s children) began coming to camp. My sister, Annette, sent her 2 adopted girls to camp also.

Tiny, Mop & Lillis

Flash forward to 1990 when I returned with my girls, Sarah and Catherine, to Nakanawa-one as a camper and one only 4 years old! My daughters went all the way through Tent Row and served as counselors also. Catherine is on the staff to this day. I have been back at camp every summer since 1990. Other nieces have also come and many great-nieces as well.
Nakanawa is part of my life and always has been. I grew up there. My friendships are long lasting and meaningful at camp. Nakanawa is where I regroup every year.  It is my retreat (though a working retreat!), my summer home in heart and soul!

Every summer when I crawl into my freshly made bed, I sigh a peaceful sigh knowing that I have once again come home.
Nakanawa is a tradition in my family that I hope continues long after I am gone. I have one granddaughter that was born last year. I hope that she will find her place at Nakanawa as have I and the other women in my family. The tradition continues!
Love,
Tiny

Casey’s Adventure

Casey's Adventure!

Casey Colwick Fisher

Camp Nakanawa Camper and Counselor

My life has been full of adventures and opportunities, especially at Camp Nakanawa! I was a Senior camper at Nakanawa for three summers, 1953 through 1955. Summer 2016 will be my 44th summer to be a Nakanawa counselor. How fortunate I am!

I first heard about Nakanawa when I was an eighth grader in Midland, Texas. Helen Hood, a good friend of Director Elisabeth Mitchell’s and a Canoeing counselor at Nakanawa, told me that she thought I would like being a Nakanawa camper. Boy, was she ever correct! After my family moved to Dallas and I met Highland Park High School friends, some of whom attended Nakanawa, I decided to give Nakanawa a try during the summer after my sophomore year. Life was great in Cabin 8! The next two summers I was a Tent Row girl and was Captain of my Amazon team in 1955. I learned so much as a camper, not only about athletics and cabin life but also about leadership. Nestled in my mind even then was the desire to pay back what had been given to me so lovingly by camp’s directors, the caring counselors, and my close friends.  Here I am with my good friend Nan Chamberlain in 1955.

My chance to become a Nakanawa counselor came in the early 1970s. Mitch and Scooter traveled to Dallas, invited me to dinner at the Dallas Country Club, and proposed that I come to Junior Camp in the summer of 1972 as one of the Head Counselors. My children, Sharon and Scott, were old enough to be campers, and during the weeks I was working in Junior Camp Scott attended Camp Hy-Lake and Sharon was a Junior camper at Nakanawa. That first summer began a long tradition of summer camp adventures and opportunities for all of us.

I was Head Counselor of Junior Camp from 1972 through 1985 and then again in 1991. After I “retired” from being Junior’s Head Counselor in 1985, I went to Senior Camp until I was asked to be Junior’s Head Counselor again in 1991 for the Two-Week and the Six-Week Sessions. Since 1991 I have counseled in Senior Camp and have had opportunities to teach classes, write the Newsletter, run camp errands in Crossville, work as a secretary in the Office, and help in the Commissary. The classes actually assigned to me have been Handbells, Golf, and Canoeing. I have assisted from time to time in Swimming, Diving, Glee Club, and Tennis. In Junior Camp my first summer as Head Counselor I was also Head of the Waterfront.  I love this picture of Lou Lloveras from 1991.

 In Junior Camp some of my favorite moments included walking through the cabin area before Taps sounded and listening to the cabin counselors tuck in their bunkies by reading to them, singing to them, playing an instrument for them, and praising them for a day well spent. I remember trying to retrieve a $500 orthodontic retainer from Lake Aloaloa after a young camper threw the retainer away in a fit of aggravation. I remember saying “We wuv you, Wug!” when it began to rain as well as allowing the children on the “Little Side” to leave the Dining Hall after lunch, put on their raincoats and rainboots, grab their umbrellas, and come to the Games Field to do their dance routine to “Singing in the Rain”! I remember spending time every night with the counselor staff as we worked on the Operetta sets in the Council House, and I remember flipping those sets during the show and getting tempera paint in my eyes! I remember the days of the small Coca-Colas which flew out of the red machine if I put a quarter in the slot. We used to get one of those Cokes, take it to the barn, and ask the horse Sundance if he would enjoy having a Coke. He would tilt his head back, give us a loose bottom lip, and down would go the Coke, complete with Sundance’s tongue trying to lap up every drop. That in itself was a singular adventure!

In Senior Camp some favorite moments for me are preparing the morning snacks so the graham crackers, apples, and yogurt will be ready for the campers when they line up at the door after third period. Hearing the Evening Entertainment laughter during Double Trouble and Human Bingo warms my heart! Listening to camp songs, blowing the starting whistle during a swimming relay race at a Water Meet, watching the fire at Council Ring and being proud of the campers who receive Recognitions in their activity classes, munching on a hamburger during a camp cookout, admiring the friendly competition and good sportsmanship of the Valkyrie and Amazon teams, oohing and aahing over the handiwork of the campers who take Arts and Crafts and Pottery, enjoying a tight tennis match, wishing I could be as good in the water as our form and distance swimmers, loving the harmonious blend of young voices when the Octet sings—all have happy niches in walls of my memory. Knowing so many Nakanawa girls as young campers, then watching them grow into Tent Row girls and eventually become members of the counselor staff, and then seeing them as young mothers with their own children beginning their lives as Nakanawa campers are among my fondest memories.

Etched above the auditorium at Highland Park High School are the words “Enter to learn, go forth to serve.” Those words have been crucial to my philosophy about how to live life, and they have been part of my personal prescription for my roles at Nakanawa. Opportunities to serve others and adventures which spark imagination await us at Camp Nakanawa this summer. I look forward to seeing you there in June!

Love,
Casey

Mop’s 30+ Summers

Mop's 30 Plus Summers

Hi, Everyone!  My name is Margaret Queen….but everyone calls me Mop.  (Yea, that’s me leading the Junior 4th of July parade!)  Let me share a bit about why I love Nakanawa.
 
In 1954, my parents thought that camp would be a wonderful learning experience for their only child who was quite timid. I arrived with a group of about 30 girls from Oklahoma City after a 2 day train ride. I fell in love with everything about camp life immediately. For the first time, I felt that I could be appreciated for the person I really was. There was so much social and academic competition at home yet at camp that was not important. There WAS really a place for a silly skinny kid that did not have the “killer instinct” to be the fastest swimmer or center forward on the soccer team running down their opponent to score a goal. I was overcomethe with the beauty of a sunset across the lake or amazed at the adventure of a trip in the back of a tuck for our overnight at Cumberland cove There were a million reasons why I loved camp.
 
This brings me to why I returned to camp for 30+ summers.  Of course, it has to do with the time spent with camp friends, but also I felt a need to give back and help make camp a special experience for young girls as they begin their time at Nakanawa. I am always drawn to those who are not the most popular, or the best athlete but those who may need a little extra help to get adjusted to a new place and make new friends. I feel it is so important to affirm every girl and help them become comfortable with the terrific person who they are.
 
In my first life I was a school teacher in Denver. I’ve been in sales for the last 17 years and really miss the time spent with my students long ago. Camp gives me a chance to interact with young people at least 6 weeks of the year.
 
Stop by the Senior Dining Hall and say “HI!”
Mop
 
 
A note from Shelly:  Mop was also Head Counselor for Junior Camp for ten years.  She can help with just about any question or problem you may have.  She understands homesickness, or cabin squabbles, or the feeling a young girl has when she was not elected to that team position she so wanted.  And she tells wonderful stories.  You can always count on Mop for a nighttime canoeing chat or a great devotion story for your cabin.

Bullying – Things to Watch For

Bullying - Things to Watch For

We all think of schools as the place where “bullying” is discussed and addressed.  But what better place to reinforce and deal with this topic, than at camp.  Here at Nakanawa, we always pride ourselves in the ideal “Nakanawa girl.”  Basically, girls are usually on their best behavior at camp.  I said usually….but not always.  And what about outside of camp?   Cyberbullying definately can take place outside of the hallowed shores of Lake Aloaloa.

The Anti-Bullying Policy of camp can be found on the Nakanawa website. Here is an exerpt of the policy:

Our camp philosophy, which dates back to its founding in 1920, is based upon the ideals of friendship, love, honor, and truth.  At Nakanawa, we strive to ensure that all young women gain self-confidence, make new friends, leave with cherished memories and friendships that last a lifetime.  Bullying, in all of its forms is not tolerated, and stands counter to Nakanawa’s fundamental goals.

So how can we as counselors help our campers meet the ideals of Nakanawa, without bullying while at camp or away? This tip sheet, created by the American Camping Association, gives some good advice on how to spot the behavior and deal with it.

And talking with your campers helps to reinforce your views toward this behavior.  (Your campers look up to you and want to follow your lead. So you can set the tone on this.) Cyberbullying (which is not a behavior we will see at camp) is growing because it its easy.  The trend for girls to communicate face-to-face and over the telephone is getting less and less.  This is especially true at Nakanawa since our campers are spread out over the U.S. and the world!  But it is very easy to hurt someone and be indirect through texting.  In this case, you don’t see the reaction to the bullying and the consequences of your action are not immediately visible.  The cyberbully can be bold, brash, and very mean with her insults or conversations. It can also be done anonymously.  This is a recipe for an ugly, growing problem, that even Nakanawa is not immune to. So yes… we will try to address this through our cabin meetings whenever possible.

We will work to create empathy and understanding with our campers.  You will help lead devotions and discussions around these topics. I especially love a program called Bullies2buddies, which is used in the school where I work.  This article about the Golden Rule, is pretty telling. During pre-camp, we will help you come up with some strategies on how to help girls come face-to-face with each other, so that the bully and her buddy can come together.

Thanks for listening!
Shelly

ps – Don’t read this attached article unless you are really interested in the subject of bullying, as it is quite long. This is a paper I wrote for one of my education classes.

The New Reality for Girls

The New Reality for Girls

One of the easiest and most difficult, best and worst aspects of Camp Nakanawa is that it is a place that is all about girls.  It is a place that girls can be themselves, away from the influences that exist in their everyday lives.  It is a place that we can ALL get away from those petty, yet grueling pressures of the real world.

Imagine a place ……where girls can really be themselves.  Nakanawa is that place.  The article (which is summarized at the end of this section) warns us as counselors to be careful about our words and our messages when  it comes to body image.  One of the long-standing traditions at Nakanawa was the “three bite rule” at meals.  (the rule was that every person had to eat at least three bites of every food offered in the dining hall.)  Well, based upon research telling us never to make food an “issue” or battle, we have modified that charge.  Instead, we suggest that every child try the food.  We suggest that three bites is a great way to give it a try.  But we don’t hold the camper to this rule.  Another “tradition: that we no longer do is the weekly (and somewhat public) weigh-ins at the infirmary.  Again, it is placing too much emphasis on the power of food.

So our message to you, our counselors is to be thoughtful in your discussions, and careful in your actions when modeling for young women.  They will pick up on (and place importance on) every word you say.

The following section is a summary of key points from a wonderful article in Camping Magazine.

We all know that there is entirely too much focus on body image today.  It’s everywhere.  It is not just how their peers view them, but it is how they compare their bodies (at whatever age) to supermodels.
 
There is a danger in the “Cinderella Myth” in that girls become too dependent upon external validation which leads to massive insecurities.  Attached to their camp application is the psychologist’s report defining the many “issues” that the camper is battling.
 
The good news….. and this is especially true at Nakanawa …..is that girls can find a new way of approaching their lives.  Their experience at Nakanawa can help recreate a reality for girls in which they wake up every morning and feel good about themselves.  They feel open to the many abundant possibilities available to them at camp.  We, their counselors, need to teach them the mind-set to make this new Nakanawa reality their reality.
 
Early in the camp season, try this “new reality” conversation with your cabin.  Start by saying:  “Imagine a place where . . . “
  1. You could completely trust every girl sitting with you today . . . for as long as you live.
  2. You knew with total certainty that they would never hurt you intentionally.
  3. If any of you ever had a problem, you would go to each other directly and resolve the problem.
  4. They would never spread rumors about you, and would in fact squash rumors before it became gossip.
  5. They would stick up for you.
  6. They would always be honest with you.
  7. They would never make comments about how fat your rear looks in those white shorts, or anything like that.
  8. They would encourage you to be yourself, to take risks, and to accept you unconditionally.
And counselors, this is where you come in   . . .
  • Be the role model!  You need to live and demonstrate this new reality every day.  It takes time.  You need to teach them how to communicate positively.  You need to remind your bunkies that they have a choice.  And you need to ban any negative comments about each other’s bodies.  Yep!  You need to intervene each and every time they say something negative about their own bodies.  And this includes you, too.  Don’t say negatives about your own body!
  • Go the distance!  You need to be the strong, mature, assertive woman who are willing to intervene [without hesitation] the moment they get off track.  Intervene every time something comes up.  Be persistent and consistant.  It is never OK to be hurtful to another girl or to be negative toward ourselves.
  • Empower girls!  Point out the great things that are working.  Encourage the older girls to support the younger girls.  Make this your culture.  Focus on the positives.

You will be amazed at this new “reality” that you can help create for young girls.  It can combat the societal pulls of the supermodels …..we know …..because we’ve seen it in action year after year.

Child Development

Child Development

The most important “job” you will have as a Nakanawa counselor is that of cabin counselor.  You will be responsible for 8 to 10 girls, acting as big sister, friend, confident, and even “surrogate mom” at times.  At Nakanawa, we call the girls in our cabin our “bunkies.”  (They sleep in “bunk”…..get it?)  These girls look up to you, their counselor, in ways you may never know.

Lucky for us, we know what it feels like to be a young girl, a “tween,” and even a full-fledged teen.  We’ve been there ….. done that.  So you will probably feel comfortable in your newfound role as cabin counselor.

One of the comments we hear time and again from Nakanawa counselors is how camp can be a bit like a college child development course.  “Wow!  I can see adolescent development in action,” or “Now I understand what I just learned in my psychology class.”  And if you want to know the secret to being a great cabin counselor, here it is:  BE THERE!  Spend time in your cabin, take pride in your cabin, talk with each girl individually, take time to listen, and most important, be a great role model in all that you say and do.
 
If you would like to read the [impressive] article on  child development and summer camps,  click here to read the entire article.
 
Here are the ways that we can use their findings at Nakanawa:
 
  • Pay special attention to how campers make mistakes — both in activities and in relationships — because it reveals how they think. Knowing this will help you be a better counselor.
  • Provide opportunities for challenge and exploration. Most growth occurs when campers are faced with new, and even somewhat difficult circumstances. (Do you really think I can become an American Archer?)
  • Encourage effort without putting a premium on winning or perfection. Help campers understand that the process of learning involves more failing than succeeding. Remember to value the process, not the product. Nakanawa is a perfect environment to practice this.  Though we celebrate the accomplishments, we value sportsmanlike conduct over everything.
  • Be sensitive to younger camper’s concrete ways of thinking. It takes years to learn to think hypothetically and abstractly. This is one reason why younger children are impulsive and why they take what counselors say so literally.
  • Teach age-appropriate skills. Although it may be trendy to push kids ahead, Piaget cautioned, “Children have real understanding only of that which they invent themselves, and each time that we try to teach them something too quickly, we keep them from reinventing it themselves.”  At Nakanawa, we try to let young girls stay “young.”
  • Allow campers to be self-directed in some activities. Like many animals, children can be trained to perform. A nobler goal is to teach them to think for themselves and act responsibly. Some selfdirected play helps nurture children’s independence. And we have noticed that in today’s world, learning this selfdirected play is difficult for girls whose lives have been so orchestrated by their parents.
  • Pair challenge with support. Push campers’ skill limits while exposing them to expert instructors (that’s us!) and peers. This practice promotes proper child and adolescent development.
  • Design an environment where campers experience some mastery, not just constant challenge or constant hollow praise. A genuine sense of accomplishment, after some real effort and failure, is the only thing that increases self-esteem. There is no evidence to suggest that simply telling a child she is special will make her feel special.  At Nakanawa, our activities, reinforced by recognitions and clubs help support this genuine sense of accomplishment.
  • In terms of the activity you teach at Nakanawa, make sure you explain the goals of your activity to campers in advance. Then, at the end of some activities, discuss whether and how those goals were met. Play is your most powerful teaching tool.
  • And finally, Nakanawa is a unique utopia where each girl is celebrated for her own individuality.  Your support, care, and concern for each camper will help her grow and develop more than you will ever know.
 
If the child development experts were to design an ideal learning environment, it would need to be developmentally appropriate with challenging activities, nurturing experts, plenty of social interaction, and opportunities for both problem-solving and thoughtful reflection. Of course, it would also need to be just plain old fun.  I think I know just what that ideal place is, don’t you?

How to be a great Role Model

How to be a great Role Model

Children and teens do most of their learning by watching important people in their lives.  So says an article by Ethan Schafer, as printed in a recent issue of Camping Magazine. Believe it or not, you will become one of the lenses through which your bunkies view the world.

You will give campers a “mental map” for their lives in the ways that you

  • respond socially and emotionally
  • resolve conflicts, both big and small, and
  • communicate with those around you.

Ashley, the fun-loving counselor having fun on the giant swing!

Here are some ways to be great Nakanawa role models:

  1. Set a great example in all that you do and say.  Show up on time to flag raising, have positive words to say to all, stick to the camp uniform, and encourage your bunkies to do the same.  Notice when they are kind, appropriate, helpful, or fun.  Another good example of this is keeping your cabin area clean and tidy.  We require it of our campers, which means you need to show them that you believe in it, too.
  2. Have a positive, fun attitude.  Like Ashley up there hamming it up on the giant swing, we counselors have to some times show campers how to have fun.  We need to show a positive attitude and energy, even though we may not actually feel like it every time.  If we are having fun, the kids will have fun, too.  And then if we needed a lift, the contagion will go the other way and we’ll be having genuine fun ourselves.  Focus on what you do like, and catch them getting things right.
  3. Earn their respect.  Your bunkies have each other to be their friends, but you are the only one(s) who can be their counselor(s).  They count on you to challenge them to be their best selves, set appropriate limits, help them plan ahead, and keep order.  Have fun with them, but also remember that if you ever have to choose between earning their friendship and earning their respect, your best choice is to go for their respect.

Think about a person who has been an important role model in your life.  Think of the qualities that they have given to you.  let’s make it a point to become an important role model to a special camper this summer.  I can’t think of a better goal than that, can you?

Camp’s almost here!  Let’s get excited!